These words are destructive, isn’t
it? Loving fashion for years made me build arcs on my head pushes me to read
more about fashion so with my own observation of course. Being involved in the
real world, experiencing, & seeing with my own eyes made my arcs vanished.
There is much more answers outside your room than just by reading. Yes, reading
it helps a lot no doubt about it ‘coz your reading mine too. Now I will ask you
does YOUR FASHION REALLY DEFINES YOU? Is
it? Does it make you feel bad if someone tells you, you are a whore/bitch when
you wear sexy clothes, cleavage are saying hi & hello, & so with your
belly nor your legs & butt chin are enjoying the air? Or does it make you
feel great if someone tells you, you look genius ‘coz you’re wearing this nerdy
fancy glasses, simple shirt, jeans, & sneakers? Does it feel right? Is that
really you?
Fashion and clothing are
extensions of our personalities, yes it is. But it does not necessary mean that
what you wear is what you are or should I say what you wear defines you who you
are. Below are situations that I observed myself. Read it & tell me if I’m
wrong.
RICH & NOT SO RICH
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Some rich people I knew just wear simple casual
clothes like others just wear ‘em at home. Clothes that are not trendy at all,
I mean yes, before it was. Let’s say there’s a little damage on it, color is
fading, there’s a hole on it & threads are stripping off. But it doesn’t mean
they are poor & can’t afford to buy expensive jewelries, shoes, & bags,
or even wear branded clothes. These people are not just showy for what they
have. Simply as that.
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Some not-so-rich people wear fancy fabulous
trendy clothes and couldn’t afford those luxurious branded items that costs 5
digits and above. But looking at them will WOW you ‘coz they look like elites.
How fascinating they can be, amazing, and beautiful without spending a big
amount of money just to look like a billionaire. It seems they are, but doesn’t
mean they belong to.
How can you tell who is rich & who is not just by what they wear?
NERDY & SEXY
Other people are so mean for they
see other people in a wrong way and give compliments the other way around. Such
a judgmental & a pathetic idea! A wrong belief for many that has no proof. Below
are situations that I observed myself. Read it & tell me if I’m wrong.
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If someone wears sexy clothes like cleavage
are saying hi & hello, & so with their belly nor their legs & butt chin
are enjoying the air or the sun-kissed as well. Most people would think they are
a low class individual, a whore, a bitch or whatever judgmental word they used
to call them. Believed me you knew about it right? So people who wears their
traditional clothes like bellies are not covered you call them what? Or think
about the hip-hoppers, Hippies, Hipster so on & so forth they are not even like that.
Hollywood artist like Lady Gaga, Rihanna etc. are they a bitch? They are people
with dignity & even smarter what you think.
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There you go a nerdy look! Fancy nerdy glasses,
shirt, jeans, & sneakers, how genius that person can be that most of the
people will say “that person is smart”! How do you know? Does his/her
educational background written in his/her clothes? Maybe others, a true smart but
not in general.
How can you tell who is smart & who is not just by what they wear?
See how fashion type/style (next on my blog) like hippie, fetish, so on
& so forth affects one’s perception about things they don’t even understand.
That in just one fashion style you choose to have will make a last great or bad
impression.
Yes, Fashion is a means of
self-expression but it is not always to show what status we have in life, as I
mentioned above. Many of us can wear what we want to wear for todays that
Fashion is everywhere, ready to hunt us.
That in Fashion it is not being
rich or poor, smart or not, it is showing how confident you can be that Fashion
don’t define what or who you are.
You define fashion 'coz you create it!
